Why is Touchy-Feely a Four Letter Word?

Why is Touchy-Feely a Four Letter Word? Ann Begler, an old gestalt buddy, wrote a compelling article: The Anti-Antogonist: Conflict and Resisting the Touchy-Feely She wondered why people resist the touchy-feely. She writes, “So much of our work as conflict … Read More..

What to Do When People Don’t Trust You

What to Do When People Don’t Trust You When resistance comes from Level 3 (I don’t like you) there are a few things this person needs to do: He or she needs to recognize that resistance to doing a deal … Read More..

How to translate direction into action

How to translate direction into action I was recently asked,”How can leaders translate direction into action?” The problem rests within the question itself. By separating direction from action, the leader places him or herself in the position of directing and … Read More..