The Courage to Quit Talking

In this short series on the potential impact of space, I’ve quoted poet Kay Ryan in every post. So there’s no need to stop now.

She wrote, “It takes a courageous person to leave spaces empty.”

I was reminded of that line while helping my friend Karl Berger write The Music Mind Experience. Karl was a big fan of leaving space when we improvised solos. The empty space wasn’t really empty—it created a healthy tension. Often, the music becomes more powerful when it’s surrounded by silence.

Think of the opening of Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony. Just four notes. Then silence.

We can learn from Kay Ryan and Karl. It’s not about empty, wasted space. It’s about allowing silence to give others room to take in what we’re saying—and to respond.

And Ryan is right. It does take courage.

The great jazz improviser Dizzy Gillespie once said, “I spent my whole life learning what not to play.”

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Rick MaurerAbout the Author, Rick Maurer

Rick Maurer helps leaders turn major changes into opportunities to engage people and strengthen commitment. His work has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The Economist, and Fortune. He is the author of several books on change and leadership.

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